Chin Hairs

 Today, I pulled a chin hair. It was fine and grey. And loooong. She winced when I grabbed it and yanked. Didn't even ask or give a warning. "Oh, THANK you. Do that every time you see one of those." And she means it. I know it hurts...just like her arm and her shoulder and her tailbone and her neck. I think that big toe on the left hurts too. But she's always open to pulling the chin and nose hairs. At 85, she wants to look pretty. Today, she's wearing sassy red tights and a flouncy soft-cotton blouse. I pick her clothes each morning like dressing my Barbie. When I left for my own chores, she was sitting in the rocker, pedaling the floor bike, and trying to drink her water. Hopefully the day requires no more pain and includes hours of softness. 

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