All you can for as long as you can...

 Mom fell while dusting the fans. Mind you...she's closer to 86 than 85, with Parkinsons. 

Nena cleans her fans on the third Wednesday of the month. So she put mom on her calendar and comes over after she finishes her own fans. That's a beautiful gift to us all. 

But mom had to give that up. The cleaning the fans in her socks thing. It meant she had to make a decision about what she could no longer do and let someone else fill that gap. And we are all glad to do so. 

But we also have to give her the dignity of doing what she can as well. She might not be able to do all of her sports bra by herself, but she can do some of it. For a while, she couldn't open containers. Now she can manage most of them. We let her lead...doing what she can for as long as she can. That's also a beautiful gift to her and us all. 

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